How to fight and win with your Spouse

 


All of us sometimes in our life fight with our spouse.Some win,some loose,some are happy in loosing and for some there is an indifferent outcome.

It is possible for all of us to get favourable outcome and result if we follow a few ethicates of such fights.

            ETHICATES OF FIGHTS AMONG SPOUSES.


1....Do not insult.You married her because she was your worth and you loved her.

2....Do not use wrong and dirty words.Your children will not only learn them but if they are young,( less than age 7) they may save them in their subconscious mind and make them a way and attitude of their life.

3....Explain your way of thinking and logic well in simple and good words.Most fights finish in this first round itself.

4...If the fights continue in further rounds you can touch(soft) your partner but don't hit or 


give an indication of hitting gesture.This is a foul not to be committed.It carries a lot of negative marks.

5...You can video and record for further evaluation but don't get neighbours involved.

6...As good Olympic players shake hands before,if not, atleast after the fight.

     You have the freedom to embrace each other.This will end the fight on tie or draw basis ensuring a win win situation to both.....the best and the most enjoyable result.

7....You be your own spectators and cheer leaders.Do not sell your view gallery tickets to neighbours. 

8....For any good sport you need to practice. Practice some good words,some good greetings,some good tones(soft) and some good gestures so that you are always the winner. 


GO AHEAD AND PLAY  AND ENJOY.

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